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| Friday, November 20, 2009, 4:27:35 AM- "Physical Types" | Today a girl asked me if a guy could find a girl physically attractive if they weren't his "physical type." I assumed that this was in some connection with the guy she was interested in that she had asked me about earlier, and who I thought was sending her hints back.
My opinion was yes, that it certainly is possible and does happen. I used to have a "physical type" I was into. After some experiences I finally just changed my "physical type" to: cute girls. Even though I preferred brunettes and redheads most of all, in the end a girl having blonde hair or say black hair, or was slightly shorter, didn't really matter. Yes, my "type" certainly would always catch my eye at first, but once I got to know certain girls, that "type" blended away and did not matter really. So I just started saying that my type was "cute girls."
I think of "physical type" as a shallow concept. Not that it's shallow to BE attracted to a certain type or to put value on physical attractiveness, but that if you're into a girl who is a blonde while you like redheads, it's actually very easy to overcome that fact. "Physical attraction" I don't think is completely linked to just looks - hence why I've been using quotation marks this whole time.
I call this the Mick Jagger Effect.
There are other factors - sense of humor, laugh, smile, etc - that add to who they are as a person, and that is a part of the physical attractiveness of a person - not just their bust size, curves or hair color... Plus there's always L'Oreal.
No one is perfect. No one will ever likely match every single check mark on your ideal (wo)man. I once asked the question of what you first noticed about a person. I'm interested in hearing what is your "physical type", along with what you actually find attractive about a person.
Here is mine.
Physical type or what turns my head at the mall as I pretend to look at a store display:
Red/Brunette, long hair, not short. Definitely notice a "fun", "laughfer's" or "happy" smile. Height - not taller than me(Says the second shortest kid out of the litter). Bust size, doesn't really matter although I'm not into fake or huge boobs. Nice legs and butt - definitely notice. Slimmer body type, not too skinny though.
What I find attractive or what's below the shallow "physical type" or what trumps it: Sense of humor. A "fun", "laughfer's" or "happy" smile. Witty banter. Goofyness. Smarts. A willingness to learn new things. An adventurous spirit. Kindness.
Ultimately - although it is late and I'm going brain dead, so my lists might change in the morning slightly :P - my two lists have only one thing in common. While the first list will get me to look, so long as the person fills out some of the check marks on both or even just the majority of the second - I will find that person attractive, physical and otherwise.
Because at that point they stop being the "smoking hot redhead" or the "leggy black haired chick in the white dress" - they become Sandra, Lisa, Julie. They aren't just legs, ass or boobs - they are a full, interesting person that you want to spend time with.
I hope this blog makes sense when I read it in the morning... :P | Viewers Comments (4): |  Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "You raided my mind. I do have "types" that turn my head, but the one that catches my heart will come from anywhere."
- mdguy |
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| Monday, November 16, 2009, 8:52:10 PM- Don't forget the songs that made you smile, the songs that made you cry and the songs that saved your life #1. | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXBY5nJDz_k
A three minute and thirty six second glimpse into me. | Viewers Comments (10): | Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "md, your so smart =] xxxxxxxxx"
- ~Wenchie~ |
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| Friday, November 13, 2009, 6:44:30 PM- . | I'm utterly bored, and the thing I should do I completely don't feel like doing it. I'm at that edge - the edge where I titter and think "Just do it. Come on, do it. You know you're going to either to regret not doing it or you're going to do it anyway, knowing that you'll regret not doing it, so just do it now and get it done with."
So I guess I'm going to go do it... | Viewers Comments (15): | Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "I feel like I'm totally being ganged up on. Like totally."
- JackD4rp |
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| Tuesday, November 10, 2009, 3:46:23 PM- An amazing blog. | This is the spot where an amazing blog would have gone if I had written an amazing blog - but I didn't, so it isn't here. Instead you have this crappy blog.
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| Saturday, November 07, 2009, 7:04:27 PM- Hi. | Been an interesting day. I've been hanging out with a couple of bitches. I should say they QUITE like me, and my skilled fingers... There has been a lot of heavy petting and wet, sloppy kissing going on.
Then they wanted to go out and poop and bark at things that aren't there. They made me put my jacket on. :( Damn, it's cold out. :( | Viewers Comments (6): | Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "Attempting?!? That just happened! :P"
- JackD4rp |
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| Tuesday, November 03, 2009, 4:51:23 AM- Sooo... | I'm sleepy.
The Yankees suck.
I still think too much. I think.
The End. | Viewers Comments (12): | Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "come ere, I got something else to tell ya..closer, closerrrr,
*grinz*"
- ~Wenchie~ |
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| Friday, October 30, 2009, 2:42:32 AM- Hrm... | | I gotta learn to hold back. | Viewers Comments (5): | Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "Sod it! Do what ya wanna! Don't hold back!"
- duttyrockgal |
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| Thursday, October 22, 2009, 7:52:10 PM- A resume question. | | I'm curious... Thanks to NN can I put "Amateur Porn star" on my resume? | Viewers Comments (13): | Add / View Comments | Most Recent Comment: | "WITH, several side ones =P"
- ~Wenchie~ |
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